In Masterful Coaching Robert Hargrove distinguishes between
"incremental learning" (single-loop), "reframing" (double-loop
learning), and "transformational learning" (triple-loop). These
distinctions
(based on the original work of Gregory Bateson, and extended by Chris Argyris and Peter Senge) are important in business settings.
Executive coaching takes place
mostly at the incremental level (embody new skills and capabilities), sometimes at the level of reframing (reshape patterns of thinking), but seldom at the transformational level
(a shift in context or point of view). Hargrove articulates the
goal of transformational learning:
"...empowering people to transform who they
are and reinvent themselves by helping them to see how their frames of
reference, thinking, and behavior produce unintended consequences... to surface and question the way they have framed their points
of view about themselves, others, or their circumstances with the idea of creating a
fundamental shift" (p. 22).
While change at the incremental and
reframing levels is quite common, I've found transformational change to be more of a
challenge. Among the many reasons,
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it's difficult
to see implicit patterns that underlie our human
systems,
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seeing these
patterns "unmasks" us, shows how what we've been doing
isn't working, and
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we resist
facing up to anything at odds with our self-image.
The Enneagram is a powerful tool to
help people break through their own resistance to change and open themselves to transformational learning.
The following explanation of the
three levels of learning is illustrated with an Enneagram Six,
Three, and Nine at each
stage of potential change (new skills, shift in attitudes/behavior, shift in
point of view):
Incremental (Single-Loop) Learning refers to learning
new skills
and capabilities through incremental improvement, doing something better
without examining or challenging underlying beliefs and assumptions.
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Let's say a
Six is concerned because his boss sees him as
"negative," and he agrees to practice a
creative
problem-solving technique. Instead of saying, "That won't work because it will
take too long," he learns to incorporate his concerns into a
solution statement such as "I think that could solve our problem.
Let's talk about how we can shorten the production time." His boss compliments
him on being more "positive" and the Six is glad he's no longer being
criticized. He may still tend to look at the negative side of things, but he
knows how to cope with that behavior in a way that keeps him off the hook in his job.
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Or a
Three might
seek a coach because she's seen by peers as "going for
the glory." She get spectacular sales results and is in
line for the Presidency, but she makes deals with
customers that are counter to the team's agreed-upon
strategies. She also
fails to share credit with team-mates for their behind-the-scenes
contribution to the bottom line. She might agree to present changes in
strategy to customers as tentative, and she could learn
collaboration skills to improve relations within
her team. This could earn sufficient respect to support her promotion, even if she uses
the skills only to meet her career goals and still sees her peers as less accomplished
than she.
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A recently
promoted Nine
might seek coaching because he's nervous giving presentations in the Board room or speaking to the press.
Though aware he's always disliked "tooting his own horn," this
hadn't been a problem until he took this visible role. He's well-liked by
peers (who seek him out to bounce their ideas around), and by his somewhat
opinionated boss (who finds him supportive and easy to get along with). He
could be taught
desensitization to allay his performance
anxiety, creating an increasingly anxiety-producing hierarchy of situations, then
using relaxation and visualization to gradually increase his comfort level. He might still
feel unsure of himself but appear unruffled to others.
Reframing (Double-Loop Learning) occurs
by fundamentally reshaping the underlying patterns of our thinking and behavior so
we're capable of doing different things. This level of learning often enfolds single-loop
or incremental learning, but goes beyond it. This is the level of process analysis
where people become observers of themselves: "What's going on here? What are
the patterns?" We begin to see we're part of
a
system of interaction,
and we can impact the system by our own behavior. We become aware of
what Argyris calls our defensive routines, previously below our level of awareness, self-fulfilling, and
self-defeating. In reshaping our thinking and behavior, we learn to be less defensive,
more open, and increasingly self-aware. This is where the Enneagram can provide a powerful
roadmap for what to observe at individual and interpersonal levels.
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Our
Six, for example, might become aware of his tendency to anticipate what
could go wrong, to look for hidden agendas. In addition to learning how to approach
problems with solutions, he begins to see how his pattern of thinking has
left out
"what could go right." Now he's able to step outside of himself a bit and
see
how he'd typically filtered out the positive, hadn't even considered it. He's no longer
defending himself from his boss's criticism. He "gets it" that
he's had a negative focus, which has invited and reinforced his boss's response. When he finds
himself focusing only on the negative, he might
write down all the negative possibilities in
a left-hand
column and counter these with positive possibilities in a right-hand column (a
"single-loop" skill applied in a "double-loop" context).
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With
reframing, the Three begins to notice how competitive
she is and understands how this behavior is driven by
her fixation on achievement. She explores the
possibility that others may be as competent as she, or
at least have complementary capabilities that could make
them stronger team-mates. She sees how her own
achievements have kept others from achieving, which
reinforced believing only she could accomplish the
desired results. She learns to use
Focusing to
stay with her impatience (a "single-loop" skill in a
"double-loop" context), and gradually gets in touch with
her feelings.
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The Nine can
become aware of his self-forgetting fixation and see how
his behavior invites others to provide structure,
especially his boss, thus reinforcing the underlying
belief he's not free to make choices. He could learn
assertiveness
techniques ("single-loop" skill, "double-loop" context),
beginning to loosen up a bit and expressing opinions
more openly and directly. At first he'll feel anxious
doing this, but reframing has put a new light on why he
feels anxious, and he doesn't let his discomfort stop
him from speaking up.
Transformational (Triple-Loop) Learning
involves transforming who we
are by creating a shift in our context or point of view about ourselves.
I refer to
this as "stepping into a parallel
universe." Something we thought and felt (and had manifested in our behavior)
has come into question. We may feel exhilarated, stunned, shocked,
humiliated, disoriented, and/or depressed at points during this process. The
change may happen gradually or all of a sudden. But in this particular
context, we will never be the same (there are other contexts still to be
explored). The Enneagram can play an extremely helpful role in
transformational learning. Because it's difficult to see ourselves as we
really are, the generic descriptions provide a template for the coach to
help clients gain awareness of gifts and dysfunctional motivations and behaviors.
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The
Six
may feel embarrassed to "own up" to his negative focus because he's always
seen himself as a good contingency planner, almost psychic at times. He might worry about
it for days, putting himself in a tailspin because his self-image is suffering. If he
can't pull out of the tailspin, he won't make the shift from reframing
(double-loop) to transformational (triple-loop) learning. He might conceivably even
deny the validity of the feedback he's been given and
shift back to the level of single-loop learning, still able to use the
new techniques he's learned, but accusing his boss of being unfair, or defending
himself from the possibility there may be chinks in the armor of his self-image.
But if he notices and responds to his behavior
consistently over time, he'll find he spontaneously notices both sides of
the equation and this, in turn, shows up naturally in his language and in problem-solving capabilities. If so, the experience of reshaping his thinking and behavior has
automatically taken him to the next level of learning: the "transformational" or
"triple-loop" level. Visually, you can imagine him "stepping aside"
from the current system of interaction. In this one respect he is no longer the same
person that he was. He now experiences himself and his environment differently.
In this way he is transformed.
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As she gets in
touch
with her true feelings, the Three may feel humiliated at how dependent
she's been on recognition, in part because she's always been impatient with feelings and with
group process when they got in the way of the task at hand. She might find herself
becoming more emotional than she bargained for. If unprepared for this, she
could
resist a self-image so incongruent with one she's held her whole life, and convince the
team she's collaborating, while working deals to her advantage -- thus reinforcing her
unconscious Enneagram strategy. Only if she can maintain her focus on
authenticity will she be able to
tolerate the transitional period of discomfort, and transform this aspect of her
personality. Then she begins to spontaneously access her feelings and ask
directly for what she wants from her team-mates.
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The
Nine
may not want anyone to know his personality style because he believes it
confirms his deepest fears that he's a wimp. He may consciously want to
change but still experience
himself the same old way, and he may ask the coach to tell him how to overcome his
own resistance to change. If he can stay centered on having opinions and making choices,
even if it means choosing arbitrarily (just for practice), and if the coach gently
but firmly guides him to choose for himself, he'll discover he does care
passionately about some things. When he continues to hang in with what's important to him,
allow himself to be "visible," he no longer needs to use
techniques to diminish his anxiety because he
feels less anxious. Eventually he
may even be energized by public speaking, especially when he's passionate
about the topic.
The
nature of the helping
relationship makes all the difference in reinforcing
transformational learning. Thoughtful coaching at the single- and
double-loop levels of learning (skill development and reframing) can
automatically evoke transformational change (shifts in point of view). In
addition to the suggestions above, other skill strategies, other "reframes,"
and other methods of reinforcing transformational learning could
be useful. But single-loop and double-loop strategies could hinder deeper learning
if they reinforce the underlying fixation:
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The
Six
above was given a technique (creative problem solving) that targeted his fixation on
accusation
(what can go wrong and why others are wrong), so the practice of focusing on
solutions would shift him away from his habitual perspective and
enhance
the possibility of transformational learning through self-empowerment. But
if he used techniques such as
responding to criticism
to bolster believing he needs to defend himself, this would reinforce his habitual powerlessness.
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It would be
vital to "short-circuit" the Three's habitual methods of
achieving recognition. Assuming she's developed a
positive, caring relationship with her coach (a
necessary ingredient for transformational change),
reinforcement for feeling failure could be created in
her double-loop process. In contrast, a coach who
praises her for becoming more effective, even in her
response to the coaching process, would reinforce the
Three's drive for achievement and unwittingly block
transformation.
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It's important
to frame the Nine's incremental work so he's developing self-knowledge and
choosing what he wants. If the
consultant totally provided the structure, and the client just followed directions, this
could reinforce the Nine's fixation of self-forgetting and make transformational
change less likely. Also, as Nines become more assertive they express annoyance and
even anger more openly and directly. This wouldn't go down so well with his boss
(except when it's directed toward others, which the boss would applaud).
Our Nine may
need continued rehearsal and debriefing, lest he timidly retreat when others up the ante
in a direct confrontation (a likely consequence in many corporate settings).
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